




damn! i was gonna publish a new post but my picture just wouldnt upload. for the past hour or so i was doing my utmost to get it up (no pun intended), tried 3 browsers, different sizes but it just wouldnt come up. rotating signal for 5 minutes & then that delightful message "your connection was reset". & no, file sizes arent big.
anywayz since it's an image-driven story i can only post it with the images. 2 images actually. will try laters. cheerios

This is something that seriously disturbs me. I just don’t get it. It’s insane. I cant be polite about it. it’s utterly & absolutely ridiculous.
Ok, I was chatting with a friend of my mine a little while ago & I said something rather sweet.
Background: rewind to a coupla years ago when we had a tiny fling which somehow didn’t materialise into a full-fledged relationship & she’s now dating the guy who was next in line at that time.
Ok, I was chatting with this girl a little while ago & I said something rather sweet.
She replied, 'hey be careful, my bf signs in on my account too'
I thought what the f***? Your bf chats on your account?? How frigging freaky is that! I’m glad you warned me...
Well, she says she’s cool with it cos she’s faithful & he wouldn’t ‘catch her’ however much he probes into her account. But that’s beside the frigging point.
Needless to say we’ve hardly chatted since then. Even if I see ‘her’ online I couldn't be bothered to say hi. ofcourse i can ask every time, 'hey is that u or yr bf?' well, that’s not a very bright idea, is it.
She’s a good friend of mine, absolutely adorable & we share perfect chemistry. MSN was the only means of interaction we had resorted to since the good old times. Well, not frequently but every now & then.
She did hint before that he was quite controlling but that’s just way too much. That’s a whole lot more than jealousy, rather insecurity & mistrust bordering on neurosis.
Well, most guys are possessive but it’s YOUR personal account for heaven’s sake!
Ok one might hand it out to someone you trust, maybe out of courtesy or out of some emergency or obligation or something but do you really really want anyone else to keep track of your personal communication? You feel comfortable with that? Is that really necessary? & do you want them to chat on your behalf???
An ex-gf of mine said she gave her password to a close office mate. Well, that guy was into her for a long long while & I suspect he’d have always kept her account under surveillance.
Beats me.
I believe this is a frequent occurrence & i now have to make sure with my online friends whether anyone else uses their account. gosh, i hate having to do this.
It’s your privacy afterall. deserves a little more respect, don’t you think?